Archive | August 2012

Mommas of the Metroplex Meet Up

Are you a mom looking for something fun to do with your little one?

Want to connect with other moms in the area?

Join the Bump, Birth, and Baby Network for our first ever Momma Meet Up!

 Mommas of the Metroplex Picnic

Saturday September 15th

11:00-1:00 (come and go)

Celebration Park 701 Angel Parkway  Allen, TX 75002

Since this is our first event we wanted to do something affordable for everyone. So we thought what’s better than a picnic at the park?!?!

Simply bring a blanket, snacks, and of course your kiddos.

No RSVP necessary. We will set up around the main pavilion close to the play set so older kids can run around.

If the turn out is good and there is a lot of interest, we’ll look in to hosting larger events!

See you at the park!

Check out the Facebook Event Page to see who else is going!

Free Birth Photography!

Anyone in need of a birth photographer but don’t want to pay $$$?

I am here to help!

One of my original goals in life was to open my own photography studio. I studied photography all through high school and worked at Sear’s Portrait Studio for a year. However after graduation, reality set in…photography is a very expensive hobby! It has been on the back burner in my life for a few years now. As thing with Bump, Birth and Baby begin to take off I thought it would be a perfect time to get back to one of my favorite past-times while still helping expectant families.

I am looking for 1 or 2 couples that are willing to take a chance on me and be my “guinea pigs” :) I am looking to do a free birth photography session so I can build my portfolio and you can get memorable pictures of a life changing moment at a price that can’t be beat.

I can also provide doula services in addition to the photography if you are looking for a more hands off doula/back up coach. Please contact me for special pricing.

This offer won’t last long so contact me now at!

 Here is some of my older non-birth related work

Afternoon Affirmation 8/24/12

Postpartum Affirmation #2

I can never be a PERFECT parent, but I can be the BEST parent for my child! 

The following quote hits the nail on the head!

Each mother/parent is doing the best s/he can and making the best decisions s/he can make based on their own situation. State that it’s not for you, if you will, but please don’t judge those who make different decisions than you. Odds are, you’re screwing your kid up as well, just in a different way.” ~Joanna Schmehl Irizarry

Doing your best to love, nurture, and protect your child is all you can do.

Do not worry what other people think is right or wrong and listen to your instincts.

Parenting is the hardest job you’ll ever do, but it’s also the most rewarding.

Bump, Birth, and Baby on Twitter

The Bump, Birth, and Baby Network has just joined Twitter!

Check out my awkward first tweet and help me get some followers

I have never been on Twitter before so please bare with me as I try to figure it out :)

Thank you for your support!

Healthy Pregnancy Prep Poll

Please check out my latest poll on Facebook regarding my Healthy Pregnancy Class!

I would truly appreciate everyone’s feedback about what YOU would be interested in learning if you were to attend a healthy pregnancy seminar.

 I am hoping to host my first class in mid-September at Lonestar Baby and Kids in Frisco.

I have another meeting with the manager on Monday and hope to have good news…wish me luck!

Thank you for your support!

Afternoon Affirmation 8/17/12

Birth Affirmation #4

Powerful strong contractions will  help my baby come into the world

Afraid of “the pain” associated with a natural birth?

Don’t look at contractions as pain but as work.

Just look at the definition of “labor” – Physical or mental exertion, especially when difficult or exhausting; work

Welcome each contraction and know it brings you one step closer to holding your baby.

Strong contractions are also good for your baby as they stimulate baby’s nervous system and prepare (s)he for life outside the womb.

10 Tips for Natural Childbirth…from an OB!

It is so hard to find OBGYNs who are not only supportive of natural birth, but will also help you achieve your goals. I’ve heard too many stories of “my doctor said I can have a natural birth IF I go into labor by my due date, labor on back, and am checked into the hospital for less than 24 hours. Otherwise he/she will intervene”. So when I saw this article circulating around Facebook I had to share!

The Pregnancy Companion’s Top Ten Tips for Natural Childbirth

10. Be  Healthy Before You Get Pregnant

The journey of natural birth begins well before the first contractions. Actually it starts before the pregnancy test fades to pink. For a healthy baby and natural birth, the best first step is a healthy mom. Obesity is one of the biggest risk factors for gestational diabetes and pre-eclampsia.  Both of these conditions often require induction (see #1) which can decrease your chances of successful natural childbirth and increase your risk of cesarean section.   Chronic medical conditions such as asthma, hypertension, hypothyroidism and diabetes can also causes pregnancy complications. Having them under optimal control before conception is key. 

9. Know Why You Are Choosing Natural Childbirth

Do not choose natural childbirth because your mom did it, your husband thinks you should or all the girls in your MOPS group are doing it. You choose it because in your heart of hearts you know that natural childbirth is important to you.  You must truly believe that its the best thing for you and your baby.

This is your birth, your delivery, your decision.  It’s your vagina that’s getting a cantaloupe squeezed through it.  It has to be your conviction.

8. Have a Strategy

Natural childbirth will likely be one of the most challenging things you ever do in your life. You need to be prepared. Whether it’s Lamaze, Bradley or hypnobirthing, know what your plan is for when things get bad. After you formulate a plan check to see what items your hospital has available (i.e. showers / birthing tub) and what you need to bring (i.e. Yoga ball). Practice the different birthing positions. Keep a list of your pain management strategies.

7. Have a Good Coach

When you are in transition and you are experiencing pain on a level that you have never felt before, you may not remember all those birthing strategies you practiced. That’s why you need a coach.  Some husbands are great at this, others not so much. If your husband may not be the best birth coach, hiring a Doula (a professional birthing coach) may be a good option.

6. Have a Really Quick Labor and Come to the Hospital  When You are 7 cm

Or at least labor at home as long as possible. Discuss with your provider how soon you need to come to the hospital. This will be dependent on how dilated you are, how many babies you have had and how far you live from the hospital.

Having a quick labor is also helpful, but sadly I don’t have the magic recipe for that or else we’d be selling a lot more books.

5. Be Determined

I have a lot of patients who tell me, “Well I want to try to go natural, but leave the option open for epidural if it gets really bad.”  These women, with the rare exception, end up with epidural. Labor is stinking hard and it does get bad. Of the women who say epidural is not an option, about 50% of them make it natural.

Realize this is going to be hard and stick to your guns.

4. Don’t Listen to the Haters

If natural childbirth is important to you then it doesn’t really matter if anyone else thinks you can do it, it only matters if YOU think you can do it.  I have patients ask me all the time if I think they will make it natural.  I always say, that anything is possible.

I have been proved wrong many times by patients who succeeded in natural childbirth despite the odds. Patients I thought would cave – like the unprepared teenager who had to be induced, but was just stubborn enough to stick to her guns and make it natural. There have also been patients who I swore would make it, like the 30 something with a 10 page birthplan and the Bradley book memorized, who got her epidural at 1 cm.

3. Don’t Get Fat

When you gain weight in pregnancy you gain it EVERYWHERE, including your pelvis. The fat takes up space in the birth canal that the baby desperately needs to squeeze through.  All those extra calories can lead to a big baby, making it even harder for the baby to come out. Additionally, packing on the pounds increases your risk of pre-eclamplsia and gestational diabetes, both of which increase the need for induction and cesarean section.

A normal BMI patient should gain between 25 – 30 pounds during pregnancy with the majority of that being after 20 weeks.

It’s all about moderation:  Give into to your crazy pregnancy cravings twice a week not twice a day.

2. Keep Walking

Gravity is your friend. Stay mobile in labor as long as possible, let gravity help urge the baby further down into the birth canal. When walking hurts too much, rock on a yoga ball or stand and sway your hips back and forth.  Stay out of the bed as long as possible.

1. Avoid Induction

Natural childbirth is hard. With the rare exception, its one of the hardest things you’ll every do. Natural childbirth with pitocin is even harder. It can be done, but it makes the already crushing contractions even more abrupt and intense. Some medical conditions do necessitate induction, but if you can avoid it, that  is your best option.

I must now give a disclaimer: I have never personally experienced natural childbirth.  If you want me to be totally honest, I have never actually had a vaginal delivery. But I’ve delivered over a thousand babies, so I have observed many natural labors.  These are the strategies that I’ve observed leading to the most successful natural births.

read the whole article and check out Dr Rupe and Jessica’s Blog here –>